Author: handler
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In Nigeria and many parts of the world, it is not uncommon to hear children who struggle academically being labeled “olodo”—a derogatory term meaning “dull” or “dumb.” While these labels may seem harmless to some, they are deeply damaging to children’s self-esteem, identity, and future. Psychology and education research make one thing clear: no child…
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It is a common saying that “there’s good in everyone.” While it may sound idealistic, psychology provides evidence that this belief is more than just optimism—it reflects deep truths about human nature. The Human Capacity for Good Humanistic psychology, pioneered by Carl Rogers and Abraham Maslow, emphasizes that people are inherently driven toward growth, connection,…
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In many Nigerian homes, mental health is hardly ever talked about, especially when it involves anxiety, which is often misinterpreted as laziness, weakness, or even disobedience rather than being seen as a valid emotional experience. The shame surrounding mental illness, along with deeply ingrained cultural values of resilience, creates an environment where individuals struggling with…
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Introduction Nigeria’s mental health system is still in its early developmental stages, and within this fragile framework, neurodivergent youth remain one of the most overlooked populations. Neurodivergence refers to natural variations in neurological development, including conditions such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, dyspraxia, sensory processing disorders, and learning disabilities.…
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For years, I have explained a truth that many in the counseling and therapeutic world see every day but rarely trace to its root, narcissists don’t just resist therapy, they neurologically can’t process it in the same way others do. The reason is not a simple matter of stubbornness, arrogance, or an unwillingness to change.…
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Introduction Nigeria’s mental health system is still in its early developmental stages, and within this fragile framework, neurodivergent youth remain one of the most overlooked populations. Neurodivergence refers to natural variations in neurological development, including conditions such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, dyspraxia, sensory processing disorders, and learning disabilities.…
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The Chartered Institute of Counseling in Nigeria (CICN) is far more than an academic institution, it is a catalyst for awakening, healing, and alignment. While it operates as a professional training body for counselors, countless students describe their experience at CICN as a turning point, the place where the pieces of their lives finally began…
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Introduction Even in today’s technological world, stigma, misinformation, and silence surrounding mental health are prevalent. Many still find it difficult to ask for assistance or to speak honestly about their challenges, even in light of increased awareness. The lives of those who are dealing with mental health issues are not the only ones affected by…
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IntroductionIn many Nigerian communities, stories still abound of elderly women being branded aswitches. These accusations often arise when such women are found wandering aimlessly anight, forgetting the way home, talking to themselves, or engaging in unusual behavior thatconfuses those around them. In several reported cases, these women have been beaten,tortured, banished, or even killed on…
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Hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) is a type of sexual dysfunction characterized by a persistent or recurrent lack of sexual desire or interest in sexual activity, which causes distress or interpersonal difficulties. HSDD can occur in both men and women and can have various causes, including physical, psychological, or a combination of both. In women,…